a tough questions

a friend asked me, " apa beza kluar makan ngan bf (as if dating) dgn kluar mkn ngan kawan lelaki (just to catch up on things) ?" hurm...it is a tough question there...and honestly i dont know the real answer . but this is what i think...

• what is your intention going out with him? why?


• what do you feel when going out in that two different ocasion??


• what does your heart say about that?


• do you think it is right to do so?


• what will you get from going out with him? any benefit from it? .

i think when you answer these questions yourself, then you can answer the top question yourself.